Girls & Guys... too much to take...
Recently i've been thinking back on a lot of things... well relationship wise... probably the first time i ever thought about something so much...
been meeting up some girls recently and they have been complaining about guys... yes while i'm still there... apparently for them they don't see me as a dude... wat's up with that?
this however made me think about how i will become when i'm really attached... will i become like the guys they mentioned?
firstly i congratulate Melissa cos i think she's having a wonderful time with her bf and that she has found someone really special and good... and apparently nv really updated her blog cos she's having a good time?
then there's ong as well... doing good... very close relationship... and apparently don't really hang out with his or her friends anymore... i think... thought u wanted things to go slow? well i personally think u've been spending too much time with her? isn't it just wat u said u didn't want to happen?
then so many other girls who complains that guys are being unreasonable, insensible, egoistic, controlling, pigs, overshadowing, and yet some who flock down to guys cos they seem to be a "nice guy"???
though i'm a guy... i think i've been hearing too many opinion from a girl's point of view... and sadly i agree... y are we like this?
personal reasons or religious reasons or watever reason... they all result with the same discussions and arguments that some couples has never been able to solve or in some cases where they totally ignore the problem...
girls say guys are egoistic, guy say girls are complicated.
who's to say who's right and wrong? and even before that... where does the problem originate from?
every problem has it's solution to balance an equation... it's a general fact...
but apparently... WE are the problem... we create the problem so the solution is US...
even i think i have created some problems for being too personal with this post... i'm sorry but this is just how i feel... and once again... watever arguments this post might cause all comes down to personal opinion...
Peace!
Labels: emotions, relationships
posted by Big Friendly Giant - am i really that anymore? at
1:31:00 AM
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Let me do it here la.. it's so much easier..
First, i have to agree with WE are the ones who create the problems. Hence WE have to be the ones solving the problems. And aint that means Compromising to each party?
Honestly, each r/s when it gets longer there tends to be more tension. And why? becux of either one will think one take him/her for granted. And once human being have those mentality, hardly they will want to be the one compromising.
Why do i put up the "formula"?? Cux, my friend's husband can be so sweet and nice to her before marriage. And now he DOES know that pregnant lady need alot of attention as they tend to be more sensitive yet he aint giving her the extra amount of comfort. That is why i minus the comfort. Instead of searching in himself why his wife has choose to turn to her friends instead of him, he then sent an not-so-nice sms to my another girlfriend that we should "see" the whole picture before giving his wife any advices.
Anyway, none of us in our grp of girl other than the wife can tahan this guy He is too much of an MCP.
About this guy, i have hell lots to comment.
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